Lessons my Master Taught Me
“Submission can be a series of silk and satin and role play for a great start as well as any toy paddle, flogger that is designed to tease in sleek, soft way and leaves no marks.
Harsh commands may be given to the person submitting as those are usually just as effective as the honey-like come hither impression.
The way a dominant moves in sensual domination involves graceful movements. With an air of playfulness, rather than outright control, the Sensual Dominant excites, titillates and teases their pray with sex toys such as vibrators, feathers, even their own fingernails. There can be an element of danger but trust is still the key component of allowing oneself to be dominated.
The submissive still gets off on the power exchange dynamic yet the subtleties make all the difference. Punishment doesn’t have to revolve around harsh and obscure tortures that require a myriad of devices that existed only in the middle ages. Rather, the threat of denial can work wonders.
With trust being the key issue here, the terms and actions of any event going forward are still negotiated and discussed so both parties get the amount of satisfaction they desire.”
~Quoted from Master’s Journals